and in my neck of the woods...
Ramadam began at the beginning of the month, and from what I understand, it is an Islam
tradition that seems similar to the Catholic Lent. For basically a month a person is
supposed to fast from impure thoughts and vices and the way that this is symbolized is
that the person does not eat or drink (even water) while the sun is up...this description
is coming entirely from observation, so I might be way off! As with most
religions and traditions there are varying degrees of commitment and as far as I can tell
only a few folks in my village are fasting and they typically tend to be the older
generations. One part of the tradition that everyone seems to get really into is Orozo,
or the time when the fast is broken at the end of each day. It's really just a big party
and people just take turns hosting. I got home the other night and there were about
20 people sitting around a table that was just covered with food....and I mean there
wasn't one spare inch of room. I soon found out that this was just tea, the real meal hadn't
even started yet! Dinner soon follows, though, and basically an entire sheep is
brought out on platters and portions (or more accurately, parts) are handed out depending
on how you rank in the family. The grandmas got the brain, the older men got some intestine
and I got some of the tongue. At this point I'm starting to wonder if they purposely try
and gross me out for their own amusement. I think that they got a real kick out of
watching me take a bite, gag, and then tell them how good it was. I think that they know
when I'm just being polite, but that didn't stop them from offering me the butt fat!
Though I'm not always crazy about their food preferences, I can't deny that they Kyrgyz
are incredibly gracious hosts. They go out of their way every time in order to serve
and cater to their guests, for instance, they will only fill the tea cup half way
in order to show that they are being attentive to the needs of their guests (Of course,
most of this responsibility falls onto the daughter-in-law, who we like to call Cinderella).
It's almost impossible that anyone will ever leave a Kyrgyz home not stuffed to the max
and even if the family doesn't have much they will put whatever they have onto the table.
As much work as it takes to be a host, I'm finding that being a guest also its work.
Saying no to food is sort of taken as a personal insult so trying a bite of everything is
mandatory (hence the sheeps tongue) and just stopping by someones house usually takes
at least an hour because they insist that you have tea with them (and it's never just
tea). Part of the PC survival guide is how to deal with pressure to eat and drink too
much...my favorite is "my kidnies are tired".
This past week and then next week, we are testing out our teaching skills in the local
schools in our village. It really is one of those situations where you either sink or learn
how to swim real fast! We have basically no resources to help us out besides some chalk
and a Kyrgyz dictionary. As my host brother kindly informed me, it's really an impossible task.
The first week wasn't as frightening
as I thought it would be. Being an American automatically gives us celebrity status, yes
I even signed autographs, and the kids are more intersted in knowing about life in
America rather then how to congugate verbs (I know they must be crazy, verbs are my
favorite). It's hard to take these classes seriously when the students show up when they
want to, if they show up at all that is, and English is not something that they study
normally so chances are pretty good that it will not be retained. I've given it a good
shot, we've done greetings (yah, I taught them 'what up' and 'see ya'...im going to have
some hip kids) and numbers, but we've also played games. I'm trying to make it as
entertaining as possible, otherwise they just wont come back!
Part of the deal in being a teacher with PC is that they want you to bring in American
ideas and styles of teaching. The school curriculum here is left over from the
Soviet era so they really encourage perfection and conformity rather than creativity.
Even the text books that the students use are few and way out of date. For instance,
I was looking through one and found titles such as, "Lenin's Modesty" and "Study as
Lenin studied". There was also a description of American politics, "There are two main
political parties in the USA, the Democrats and the Republicans. They are both
parties of capitalists and the American people do not see any difference between them."
I know that we're not perfect, but come on! There is also very little money going to
the schools and things that we would consider mandatory, like text books or desks,
are either in poor condition or they just dont exist. The class that I'm teaching is
full of 16 year olds and they have to sit in desks that were made for 10 year olds...
I have to say thats it is a bit entertaining watching them fumble their way in and
out of them!
My days are getting really routine and soon I will be low on stories, let me know
if there is anything specific that you want to know about!
all the best,
machalla